is $$ impt or is relationship more impt??? was toking to my mum juz now then realise in this world, some ppl really take $$ as so much more impt than relationship lor.. maybe cos me haven't met such a situation, if 1 day something liddat happen, i wonder wat i'll choose.. money?? or family/husband???
tink my mummy is very wei da leh.. for her family, she can spend all her $$, sell off all her jewellery juz to get e $$ to help out.. i wonder how many women in this world will do tt? at least i noe of some who won't.. some ppl see $$ as more impt than their spouses ba.. after listening to mummy's story, i really tink sometimes $$ is really not tt impt lor.. wat matters is ur family rite.. if cos of $$ then cause e family to breakdown, isit worth it?? i'm glad mummy chose to keep e family and not $$ lor, if not maybe me now will not haf such a great family..
having too much $$ is not good at all.. having $$ is impt la, cos need to eat and live wat.. but too much can cause a lot of prob lor.. like my grandma, now wif e $$ she got from selling e house, no matter wat decision she make, there's always someone objecting it.. she wan spilt for her kids, got ppl object.. dun spilt also got ppl object.. tink tt's another prob wif having a lot of kids also.. many ppl wif many mouths results in many comments.. then now make her so stressed out over this.. for wat rite.. i mean she's so old liaoz, juz let her do wat she wan and enjoy her life la.. those adults dunno how to tink one lor.. haiz.. then all throw to my mummy, ask her to settle.. then if they not happy wif it then they scold her.. they so li hai then go settle it themselves lor.. problematic..
another pt wif too much $$, esp for guys hor, is they'll go out haf affair lor.. for most guys la.. like mummy says, she act quite glad tt my daddy dun haf so much $$.. at least she can fang xin tt he won't go out haf an affair, cos no $$ to "yang" e other woman wat.. haha.. true also ma.. like my aunt, always worry tt her husband will go out haf affair.. somemore he always go business trips, then she'll start suspecting if he going hols wif another woman.. and also cos got bad record la, so cannot blame her for tinking so much.. so does tt mean shd not let ur husband socialise so much?? increase e potential rite.. haha... or maybe dun let them haf so much $$.. but like so bad leh, control their $$..
but at e end of e day, i tink it all depends on e person's personality ba.. like my mummy, if she really tink $$ is impt rite, she won't stay on wif my daddy and not leave him ba.. tink if it's me, maybe i'll not choose $$ also.. maybe wif $$, ur life will be better.. but tink e love u lose will be a greater regret ba.. and there's also many cases where guys wif tons of $$ and still won't go out "gui hun" ba.. it depends on how devoted they are lor.. if it's in their characters tt they are buoya or hua xin rite.. no matter they haf $$ or not, they'll still find other women.. juz tt $$ increases e chances and maybe e no of women.. haha..
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