人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。
第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人，
第三个是最爱你的人，
第四个是共度一生的人.
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然後体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，
也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。
但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；
同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。
当一个人不爱你要离开你，
你要问自己还爱不爱他，
如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了，
而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？
爱不是占有，
你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，
让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆，
如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好，也爱他的坏：
爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，
绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，
万一变不成就不爱他了。
真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你；
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。
毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；
分开是一种必然的考验，
如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，
真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
两人在谈情说爱的时候，
最喜欢叫对方发誓，许下承诺我们为什么要对方发誓，
就是因为我们不相信对方，我们根本不相信情人，
而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际：
海枯石烂、地老天荒，都不能改变我对你的爱!
明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒；
就算会，也活不到那时候。
许下诺言的时候千万注意，不要许下可以实现的诺言，
最好是承诺做不到的事，
反正做不到的，随便说说也不要紧，
请记住：”不可能实现的诺言最动人”
在爱情里，说的是一套，做的是另一套；
讲的人不相信，听的人也不相信。
你呢？找到了第几个？
茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？
hee.. some pics taken during my holiday..
--> this one is taken on e deck of e cruise.. e nite when i saw a shooting star! hee.. think i look quite nice here.. haha..
--> nice sea view here.. but a bit too sunny.. hee..
--> taken @cruise's lobby.. e lobby looks grand.. but not very obvious in this pic la.. hee..
yeah.. my bloggie finally looks okie and updated.. e previous few times try also can't see e updated one.. at last i can update it.. haha.. juz came back from my nice cruise trip wif my dear.. heehee.. so happy, can go wif my dear for a holiday.. shall try upload some photos later..
e worst thing tt happen at e trip was at e check in time.. there was sooooo many indians! o my, u never see so many of them at a time can.. sorry for being racist here but really can't stand these ppl.. not their smell u noe.. but their behavior.. so rude lor.. there's this grp of indians queuing behind us and pushing their way lor.. trying to get in.. cos they open e queue for balcony class first, so we had to wait for them to finish then we can go in.. then this grp of indians start pushing and demanding that they shd be let in also.. can't they juz wait.. then dunno they big size isit.. so fat then still pushing their way ard.. inconsiderate ppl.. luckily didn't see much of them in e cruise and most of them went down when e cruise reach kl..
now shall tok bout happy things and forget bout those indians.. hahaha.. e food on cruise was not bad.. actually go cruise also only bout eat, sleep and play lor.. kinda piggy lifestyle.. hahaha.. once we got in to cruise and put our bags, we went to eat! haha.. good start of e trip.. hee.. wan to eat at e chinese restaurant where e food comes in a set one.. then see how many ppl then they serve e amt.. think got bout 4 dishes in e set.. then plus rice or congee la.. not bad hor.. after eating we start to explore e place lor.. juz walk walk ard to see e place and took some pics.. then went in casino look look also but nvr play anything though..
woke up next morn for breakfast! hahaha.. for ppl like us who like to sleep till late late hor, very hard for us to wake up early u noe.. but cannot lugi la, muz try all meals.. so went to this nice looking western restaurant to try e breakfast.. it's those type tt u can order things like omelette and ham which they'll cook for u.. and also haf a small buffet wif those bread and fruits for u to take one... nice filling breakfast.. hee.. hmm.. then juz walk walk, play arcade and games then lunch! hahaha.. food was not tt nice for lunch, went for e chinese food then not tt great la.. then we went down at kl.. for 15 mins.. hahaha... didn't really wan go far.. juz went to e port klang to see see.. only 2 shops there lor.. so we got back damn fast.. but also good, cos after tt we went swimming.. haha.. cos most ppl went down at kl so quite little ppl at e pool.. then it was dinner time.. hahaha.. dinner was also normal.. cos e food at e chinese restaurant was juz normal dishes and soup lor.. still okie la.. after tt we went to e buffet there and haf 2nd round.. hahahah.. cos all free ma.. so juz go try try e food ma.. hahaha.. after dinner was a nice rest on e deck of e ship.. nice feeling there.. sitting at e deck, enjoying e sea breeze.. and u noe wat.. i saw a shooting star!!! heehee.. so lucky hor.. of cos i made a wish.. (shh, cannot say, if not won't come true) haha.. had such a nice nite there.. heehee.. then supper time.. haha time to eat again.. supper was buffet and food was not bad also la.. juz tt e air-con was soooo cold there.. as usual, after eating was time to sleep.. hee..
hai.. so fast last day at cruise liaoz.. so short hor.. breakfast today was dim sum.. not really tt nice, only e congee was not bad.. so we went up to e buffet there for 2nd round.. heehee.. got waffle there leh.. so nice.. haha... then we decide go try our luck at casino.. cos last day ma.. try e jackpot.. and u noe wat.. we won $50!! heehee.. so lucky hor.. muz be cos got my dear.. cos i never win at jackpot one.. haha.. so nice.. then had to go pack our stuff and go for lunch.. at first go e buffet one but food wasn't tt nice so we only had a little.. then we went e western restaurant for second round.. heehee.. e dessert there was nice.. mango pudding and ice-cream.. haha.. it was time to go back after lunch.. so we waited at e side of e cruise there and rested there till most ppl left then we go off.. haha..
so tt's all for my trip.. mainly eat eat eat.. but important thing is i spent it wif my darling.. heehee.. so it's a nice nice happy happy trip.. heehee.. =)
hee.. change to a new bloggie with new name.. though title and background still same same la.. hee.. but dunno why e previous one like got prob leh.. or isit me who dunno did wat.. anyway e posts all never show one.. so change new one see how la.. new bloggie and start of new sch sem.. hee.. not bad la.. shall be a short post to test test..
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